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My Story and the Purpose of the Guide

About Me: A Life of Growth, Resilience, and Empathy

Hey, I am Simon! Born into a humble worker's family in Germany in the late 1970s, I learned early on that life is rarely easy but always full of lessons. My childhood took an unexpected turn when my mother separated from my father and left when I was just 10 years old. Overnight, I was forced to grow up fast, developing a keen sense of independence and an acute awareness of the emotions and dynamics around me—traits that would later define my journey as an empath.

Despite the challenges, I often played the clown in school, using humor to mask deeper struggles. School didn’t challenge me academically, and my grades reflected that. Yet, I went on to learn two professions—masonry and media design—proving that determination can outshine traditional metrics of success. Along the way, I worked countless jobs, from pizza delivery driver to Sony call center agent, investigator, and more. These experiences taught me adaptability, resourcefulness, and a deep understanding of people from all walks of life.

Creative Spirit and Love for Exploration

Creativity has always been a part of who I am. As a self-taught musician, I started my first band at just 14 years old. Over the years, I navigated multiple band projects, self-published three albums and several EPs, and even shared stages with iconic Metal acts like Anthrax, Avenged Sevenfold, Ill Niño, and Life of Agony. Music became an outlet for expressing emotions and connecting with others on a profound level.

My curiosity didn’t stop at music. I’ve traveled extensively, visiting every European country and exploring continents like America, Asia, and Africa. These journeys opened my eyes to the diversity of human experience and deepened my sense of empathy and understanding.

A New Chapter: Moving Abroad and Building Resilience

In 2015, I embarked on one of the most transformative decisions of my life: moving to Latin America. This move wasn’t just about geography—it was about redefining my path. My personal life has seen its share of challenges, including two abusive relationships that produced two children, one of whom, my oldest son, is now 25. Through all of this, I’ve maintained a strong, loving relationship with my son and have found healing in forgiving my mother, with whom I now share a good relationship.

Living abroad has brought new perspectives and strengthened my ability to adapt and thrive. I even spent three years living in the wilderness, often alone, where I learned self-reliance, the power of solitude, and the profound connection between humans and nature.

A Life of Purpose and Empathy

I’ve always had a deep love for animals, especially dogs, which have been a constant source of companionship and joy throughout my life. Growing up with dogs taught me about loyalty and unconditional love, values that align with my own strong sense of justice. Whether standing up for others, offering guidance to fellow empaths, or finding meaning in life’s toughest moments, my high sense of justice and empathy have always been my compass.

Today, I use these experiences—both the struggles and triumphs—to help other men navigate their journeys as empaths. I know what it feels like to be misunderstood, manipulated, and drained. But I also know the power of resilience, self-discovery, and transformation. I bring these lessons to the work I do, offering guidance that is rooted in real-life experience and an unwavering belief in the strength of empathy.